More pleasure through stretch & fullness
Gently stretching or pushing against the walls of the vagina can give a gratifying feeling of fullness. Many describe a special sort of craving for a sweet, emotional, ‘just feels so right,’ filled-up feeling. Explore the many creative ways women have found to get it.
Lee
“An ache to be filled”
Jessica
“Stretching a tight muscle”
Kate
“A feeling of something new”
Pushing outward against inside walls doesn’t create a ‘build to orgasm’ kind of pleasure but rather a satisfaction in and of itself. Sort of like how after a big stretch in bed after waking up, you can't help but smile and sigh, because it just feels so good.
There’s also a breathless feeling from being totally full and stretched inside—like approaching a limit where you can’t take any more. Surrendering to that boundary-pushing feeling can be unexpectedly exciting.
While penises and toys are stuck at one width, you can add fingers one by one, curl them, spread them and even make shapes with them to put pressure against just the right spots. 76% of women who like Adding prefer a little bit of pressure and fullness added at a time—which fingers are perfect for! Going one by one lets the vagina get accustomed to each new thickness.
With one or more fingers inserted, make a circular movement so that your finger goes around the edge, pushing outward around the inner walls, at the opening or deeper.
There are ways to get a stretch feeling without actually penetrating deeply—this can be done by pressing a closed hand, palm or fingers in a cone-shape onto the entrance.
With two or more fingers, make a ‘V’ so you’re pressing against the side walls of the vagina as you pull outward. This kind of pressure can make the walls relax and ‘balloon,’ creating even more sweet pressure.
30% of women love combining two things at once, like a finger, a penis or toy—at the same time. This might sound like a lot, but it can be a thrilling way to get that full feeling during penetration.
Olivia
“Something about the fingers”
Leslie
“My fisting journey”
For some people, there can be a lot of judgment around putting an entire hand into a vagina: it can seem agressive or 'porny'. But it can actually be very tender, loving and pleasurable. Most of the women who have discovered this say it’s something they like when they feel extra comfortable and trusting. And when they feel a hunger to feel even fuller.
Because a whole hand involves so much stretch, warm-up is key. Go one finger at a time, with a nice long break after each finger is in. Contrary to the myth, there’s usually no thrusting, just minimal, pulsing motions.
